I’ve Changed And Now I’ll Only Appreciate The People Who Will Deserve It
Almost always, and fortunately for that, we are changed by the experiences we are exposed to. And it helps us restore our priorities and perceptions. They help us to “realize” that we must not let people step on us, exploit our ideas or make us feel small. In short, we learn to value people to the extent he or she deserves.
Prioritizing and giving each person the place in your life he or she deserves means that we build a solid foundation for our self-confidence, strengthen the notion we have of ourselves and distinguish between what is positive in us and what is is negative.
To do this, we must take as our starting point that not everyone should have something to say in our lives. Trust and priority are two privileges that must be “earned” and that must be “built up “ . We have the right to decide who is allowed to have an impact in our lives on a daily basis.
Maturing means growing and learning to prioritize
Over time, we become experts at “realizing” what interests us. We are talking here about healthy and unhealthy connections; people who enrich us and people who hurt us, norms and expectations, etc.
We are too keen to please everyone because we care about them, but eventually we get the feeling that we are surrounded by quantity, instead of quality. It usually changes over time. Whether it is because we are getting older or the damage it has done – if nothing else, we are starting to prioritize those that we think are most important in our lives.
It’s not about forgiving or not forgiving mistakes, or about trying to be free from disappointments, or using weapons to protect us from rejection, or from being left behind, or whatever else might be challenges. the road.
It’s not about having friends or a partner for life. It is not a matter of wishing the other to be perfect. It’s more about aligning our priorities by making ourselves aware of where we put our love so we can enrich our relationships. And it’s about appreciating the people around us.
Do not live for the exterior, it changes all the time
In order to let go of those who do not give us anything good back, we must first stop harboring the idea that emotional pain must be an ingrained part of our relationship.
We choose the people in our lives that we will value and the priority we will give them. The phases we go through determine the masks we make use of. And the ones the others make use of. So if we want to take the mask off, we must first open our eyes. We must realize the damage that is caused by trying to be what others expect and longing to see ourselves.
The important thing in knowing and appreciating our concerns
We are all who we are. Our personality belongs to us and not the rules, priorities and interests that others place on us.
To gain this kind of freedom, we need to examine our past and our emotional present. We need to judge what priorities are piling up and what (and who) they are in line with.
We allow the pain of “these abuses,” which we allow at the expense of our identity, to pile up. We do not reflect enough on that. And it certainly makes us feel a need to flee from ourselves.
It’s like a person suffering from allergies who lies down under the rug and does not expect the dust to affect his health and that it will not have an effect on something as vital as being able to breathe. Looking at it this way, there is no doubt that these problems and people who bring negativity only fill our time.
This takes the positive away and it hurts. It hurts a lot. So when you have had enough of the pain of having deficient priorities, look inward, whole and then take a step forward. A step where you shout: Then that’s enough! I will no longer appreciate those who do not deserve it.
