Confidence: Nothing Feels Better Than Doing What They Said You Could Not

In life, there will be times when we want to do something risky. This is where people will tell us that we are not capable of doing it. Maybe it’s because  people sometimes pass on their own frustrations and disabilities to others  due to lack of self-confidence.

It is important to listen to others, but our success largely depends on ourselves. We can never know in advance whether something will be good or bad for us. But knowing that the decision is ours is the first step to getting what we want.

In our lives, changes are not only inevitable. They also happen much faster. It is normal to feel almost dizzy in a world where an idea can be innovative today and outdated tomorrow.

Why can others not see that we are capable of making our dreams come true?

In general, most people who are not willing to go after their dreams prefer  the safe path of life. They spend the best years of their lives on a job they dislike. They do what others want so that they can stay in their comfort zone and be free from fear.

These people postpone their plans. Because they think they still do not have enough experience, security or support to do what they really want. Therefore, their frustration arises when they see that others have the security or determination they lack. These people cut off our wings and unknowingly disguise their envy as cautious advice.

Making our dreams come true is an uncertain, difficult path. But the reward of living life the way we want it will overshadow all the disappointments and inconveniences along the way. It’s time to stop making excuses and stop postponing things that can be done today. Now is the perfect time to start living your dreams. To believe that you are capable of doing so.

Why do we need to have the confidence to believe we can handle it?

Self-confidence is a crucial element of success. We cannot expect our circumstances to improve if we do not trust ourselves and our abilities. We have the ability to change the world to our advantage if we actually start going in that direction.

Self-confidence is a healthy way to communicate with the world. It is the ability to defend oneself honestly and respectfully. Every day we face situations where having confidence and security can be of great help. This applies to problems in the workplace, in the relationship, etc.

This kind of communication can help us do what we want, but it is much more than that. When we feel confident in ourselves, we respect ourselves and others. Confident people are usually good at resolving conflicts and disagreements and in the end respectful people are respected.

Self-confidence, plus a dose of effort and sacrifice, will give you one of the best feelings in life: Doing something that others said you were not capable of. Not only have you won under the least encouraging circumstances. But you now have the pleasure of proving that they were wrong.