I Do Not Want To Leave You Alone

This letter is for you. I want to tell you that I do not want to leave you alone anymore. No one will pass you. You will no longer feel that you are not valued or that you are being exploited. I will not let you feel alone because you deserve as much as everyone else, simply by being yourself. You deserve everything you’re worth.

Maybe things did not start the way you thought they would, or maybe everything was mixed up when you thought something was changing. Or maybe you wanted something you could not have. Maybe you could not see what was obvious to everyone else. Maybe you even cried for help and no one listened.

It does not matter how things started or what happened. You’re here and it’s your turn. What do you want? Where are you going? What is your goal for today?

I will not let you hide your face anymore. From now on, you will keep an eye on yourself because you are the most important thing. I’m here, even if you sometimes forget it. I’m not sure how much or how little I can do, but I do. I will not let you feel alone. Although I may not know you, I know my words can heal you.

Do you know why I know all this? Because I’m everyone’s voice. Because we can all do it. Each of us can do our part and help in the way we can.

We are all with you and now you will never feel alone again

I am also writing this letter to myself. I’ve been where you are now and I’ve felt alone too. Or maybe I’m writing for my future self, maybe I’m going to feel abandoned and lonely later. This letter should remind you and me not to be afraid.

I will not let them stop you, hurt your pride, nor tear down your self-love. You will be protected from those who hope to ruin your dreams, chase you and create anxiety in your heart. I will not let this happen to you, or to anyone else around me.

You do not want to feel lonely and you do not have to live with fear. I will be there to help you find your inner voice to encourage you when you feel down. Although I can only help you with my words, I use them to motivate you to keep going, get up and move on.

I’m doing everything I can to help you. You should know that you are not alone. We can all help. In addition, if we all work together, we will become stronger, bigger, and more powerful. We can see what is coming together and face fear and pain and say we are here and we will not disappear.

Do you know the spectator effect?

In 1964, Kitty Genovese was murdered in her doorway. It took an hour and a half for the killer to kill her, and some of her neighbors witnessed the crime.

Some sources say 38 of her neighbors were at home, but some of them never called the police and others waited too long to do so. How could this happen? Is there any explanation for this human behavior?

In fact, this psychological phenomenon is called the spectator effect. This one claims that the help we provide is inversely proportional to the number of people who are witnessing what is happening. In other words, the more people are involved in a given situation, the more likely they are to take longer to offer or ask for help.

Recent studies have confirmed this effect. Help comes more slowly when more people are present. This concept is also known as the diffusion of responsibility.

That’s one of the reasons it’s good to know we’re all important that our help matters. You can not just stand there and wait for others to act. We are all responsible for what happens and each of us has the power to do something about it. You may only be able to make a small contribution, but it’s better than nothing.

I will not let you feel alone

No one can change the past, but I’m telling you I’m here now and you can count on me. I will never let you feel alone or give up. You will never feel abandoned and you will never be another story in the news. I will not let that happen. Let’s stand together so that none of us ever feel alone again.