Sisters Are United In Heart

For sisters, time and distance do not matter.  The faces that share the same features and laughter will always look at each other with understanding, intercept what the other is not saying out loud, and nurture each other with the invisible bonds that live forever in our hearts.

We all know that the sister band usually involves a unique and unusual support system. Siblings are members of the family who will most likely stay with you throughout your life. With them you share your past, your experiences and an emotional legacy. It is especially unique to sisters.

The bond between sisters can instantly bring out the echo of a childhood filled with quarrels over clothes, over hating being the oldest and also hating being the youngest. This bond is nurtured by an eternal love that knows no distance and is always concerned for the well-being of the other.

According to a study done at the University of Illinois  , the relationship with a sibling is the first relationship that children have with an equal.  This is important for parents to keep in mind.

The interesting thing about a bond between sisters is that it tends to be complicated in childhood. But when they reach adulthood, the relationship becomes an amazing pillar of support and an amazing partnership.

Sisters hover between love and competition

It is important first of all to recognize that family relationships are very complex and everyone has their own characteristics. Thereby one can say that  not all sisters enjoy the same positive and enriching bond.  Sometimes it begins to overcome these problematic situations with one’s own personal healing.

There is a book that dives pretty deep into this topic. In Brothers and Sisters: Discovering the Psychology of Companionship, psychologist Lara Newton talks about why the  relationship between sisters fluctuates between competition and intense love.

Let’s look at some factors that can affect the complexity of these conditions:

• The family and educational context in which they grow up can affect the relationship between sisters ( stereotypes about gender, preferences for one child, etc.).
• Sequence of birth also creates a difference between them in the first few years.  There may be jealousy, but the older sister may also have a protective instinct toward the younger sister.
• Growing up with one or more sisters involves going through many cycles where everyone matures as women and learns from each other. In this way  , a bond is developed based on understanding, healing  and the infallible and endless support they have for each other, little by little.

Emotional support between sisters

The years have passed. And with them went the days of secretly reading your sister’s diary, stealing her clothes from the closet, and listening to her conversations on the phone. And now  you can point to the exact place where she lives in your soul. And you can say out loud how important she is in your life despite the distance, despite having your own families and projects.

Sisters are born from the same tree. Although their branches grow in different directions, their roots will always be the same.

Sisters are extremely good at providing emotional support.  The bond between them is more than just nuisances; it is anchors with roots in a divided history that has woven loyal and lasting ties. All it takes is a glance for a sister’s emotional compass to sense disappointment, pain, and hope.

Sisters’ bonds can improve your quality of life  through its infallible emotional support. They bring you security. They trust your abilities. And they remind you of your mistakes that you have taken with you since childhood and still have not changed.

Sisters are also the ones who give you the best advice and the wisest warnings. They do not sprinkle sugar on, fool or demean. They want the best for you. And you will have that support forever, despite the fact that you sometimes quarrel and bring up certain things about the past.

As an adult, your sister can  also give you a new exciting role: as an uncle or an aunt.  This is a time when that network of emotions and support is getting even bigger. It allows you to rediscover the great treasure of having a sister.