The Healing Power Of Emotionally Charged Words

Emotional language is a way of expressing emotions. At the same time, it is a way for you to connect with the other person.

A world of emotions

Love is our feelings that are expressed in words and non-verbally. Ge nnem words and acts of love is always accompanied by a feeling; the feeling that lets us confirm the loving words.

We can define “love” as all the expressions we show the other person about how we feel about them. And it is the loving expressions that determine the nature and depth of the relationship as well as its importance to both parties.

We have clearly not learned to communicate that way. In many cases, we do not use this loving communication because we do not think it is important. But it is essential in human relationships.

Using words in emotionally charged relationships will fill them with emotion, hope and meaning. Other forms of communication, though interesting, may not touch us emotionally in the same way that words do.

The hard part of expressing love

When we feel something for another person and express it, we make the relationship different and special.

But it is often difficult, strange, abnormal and even crazy to do this as we have learned not to show ourselves from within and hide our feelings. We have been told that showing emotion is a sign of weakness.

Therefore, it becomes cumbersome based on a misunderstanding of “emotional strength” and lack of “emotional skills”. Through this, we have learned how to express our emotions and store them.

The pain of not expressing ourselves

Because we have learned to have these erroneous values, we often try to make ourselves appear strong and intense by ignoring our emotions because we think it exposes us to less pain from those who hurt us.

But pain is exactly what we feel when we do not express our feelings or when we are in a relationship with someone who does not express theirs.

The power of emotion-laden words

If we learned from childhood to use our loving words, we would discover their strength, both by hearing them and expressing them. They have the power to show our inner self and connect us with other people from within.

If we close our eyes and hear:

“I love you”
“I feel special about being with you”
“I feel happy with you”
“You are the most special person I know”
“I feel good when you listen to me”
“I feel important when I listen to you”
“I’m glad to have met you”
“I feel safe with you”
“I will stay by your side”
“I will continue to trust you”
“I want the best for you”

“I want to hug you”
“I want to know more”
“I feel loved by you”
“I feel loved”

We wanted it much better…

Maybe some of these loving words resonate with you more than others, but it is certain that they make you feel different towards the person expressing them, or make the person you are expressing feel different.