Those Who Are Always There For You Also Need Attention

Some people are like guardian angels. These are the ones who are always there for you. They are ready to give you care and attention. They make your life easier. Not just because they create wonderful things. But also because they protect us from pain.

They give you care and affection so that you feel valued, safe and supported when life gets complicated or when you feel sad or disappointed in something that is important to you. These are the ones who are always there for you, knowing what to say or do to make you feel better.

The people who are always there for everyone else tend not to cry their own tears if they can avoid it. But what about when their daily lives become too overwhelming? They also deserve attention without having to ask for it.

Why should you pay attention to those who are always there for you?

Consider the love you receive from people who put their attention on you as a kind of reward. It is extremely important that we show the same attention to these emotional guides that help us move through life.

They could be our parents, grandparents, siblings, friends or partners. Or even a colleague who always does his best to help us with our work, improve our day or our mood.

We often do not appreciate that their favorable attitude is one that they choose freely and that deserves recognition.

These people act with kindness, support, affection and attention without asking for anything in return, even recognition. So we should at least be by their side and also take care of them when they need it.

Ways to show attention, affection and interest

While we may neglect to show attention, love and interest to the people who love us, there are many ways to do so.

How? Through small actions . You do not have to make a big show to make someone you appreciate feel special or to thank the people you love and who are always there for you. Here are some key points:

• Do not demand any of them. Not even that they are there for you. If they do, it is because they want to, not because they are obligated to do so. Do not try to directly or indirectly demand that they do something for you.

• Make it a habit to pay attention to the details of their daily lives: earnestly asking how they are feeling, listening attentively and talking about their experiences and feelings. It is the key to maintaining balance.
• Be understanding. Maybe sometimes they will not listen to you. Maybe they are not giving you as much attention as they usually do. This does not mean that you are not important to them. It just means they are focused on other things.
• Show love when circumstances demand it. Acknowledge how hard they work to be there for everyone all the time . They should also know that they have someone they can count on by their side.

Being compliant is very different from being mindful

It is also important to know the difference between a person who is attentive and a person who is overly forgiving. Being attentive and caring for someone does not violate their right to freedom and self-determination.

But living to please others often results in a loss of identity and the freedom to do, be and love what we want. The person who tries to please others also ends up getting frustrated because they will never be able to please everyone.

In that sense, it is important to work on our self-esteem and establish our desires, thoughts and actions. In light of this, we must remember that before we care about the welfare of others, we should first make sure that our own needs are met.